Just because someone may not talk about, or be as open with a certain aspect of their life, doesn’t mean that that part of their life doesn’t exist, or that it isn’t important to them. It’s important to remember that everyone is different and the things that go on inside their head may be a different process than what goes inside yours. You never know what that person has gone through in the past, or what has happened to them that you may not know about that may have caused them to act, or think, or keep private the way that they do. You should NEVER judge, or assume anything about anyone because at the end of the day, you don’t really know them. As much as you think you do, you don’t. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors, you can’t read their mind. All you know is what they chose to show you, and if they chose to keep a particular facet of themselves private, then they have every right to do so. Even if it is something you and most other people are open about. So instead of jumping to conclusions and judging, or assuming that that person is being a fake or putting up a facade, maybe you should remember that you don’t know what they really feel or think about something, and that you DON’T know everything.